Remembering Thomas J. Hudner

From Doug LaViolette…

“I knew it was coming, but the phone call I’ve been dreading came late yesterday afternoon.  Thomas Hudner passed away surrounded by his loving family.  

I distinctly remember the first time I met Tom Hudner; it was September 30, 2004 in Columbia, South Carolina.  The last time was April 1, 2017.  Both dates have an indelible mark on my life.

In Columbia, SC, I proudly represented the City of Green Bay with a proposal to host the Congressional Medal of Honor Society’s Annual Convention that was ultimately held in 2007.   The last time I saw Tom was in Bath, Maine as I witnessed the Navy ship being Christened in his name, the USS THOMAS HUDNER DDG 116. 

Tom and his wife, Georgea in Green Bay in 2005 on one of his visits. 

Tom and his wife, Georgea in Green Bay in 2005 on one of his visits. 

For the past 13 years, our family had the privilege to get to know Tom and to call him a friend. 

Tom had visited our area over the years and he also presented the Thomas Hudner Scholarship of Honor twice.  This annual scholarship has been awarded through Brian’s Foundation since 2005 and will forever keep his memory alive in the hearts and minds of the scholarship recipients.

Tom with scholarship recipients, Lucas Benish (2012) and Margaret Viola (2011)

Tom with scholarship recipients, Lucas Benish (2012) and Margaret Viola (2011)

They will learn, as we have, of Tom Hudner’s commitment to his fellow man and his lifelong quest to help others.   Tom Hudner truly was not only an American War Hero but a gentlemen who cared deeply about making the world a better place.   

Thank you Tom. For everything."

Photo by Jonathan Wiggs/ Boston Globe

Photo by Jonathan Wiggs/ Boston Globe

Margaret Viola received the Tom Hudner Scholarship of Honor in 2011.  She knew aerospace was for her when she was teaching in Somalia in East Africa.  She found herself volunteering at the area's airport and returned to the U.S. with a dream of receiving her private pilots license.  She has achieved that and more with a career at Virgin Galactic and now Airbus.  She shares what Tom's scholarship means to her in the video below...

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"This award means many things to me but above them all, it means honor. This award also means legacy to me.  It is not just my legacy that it holds, it is the legacy of the people that fought and died for our country even when they knew what lied ahead.  I would just like to thank you again for choosing me for this award an scholarship, it truly means the world to me."  

Michael D Chanda, Thomas Hudner Scholarship of Honor 2016


"Scholarship Season"

Spring is what we call "Scholarship Season" around here, but that does not mean scholarships are finished being awarded for the year in May or June.

There are several scholarships proudly awarded after the main "scholarship season" that we would like to highlight for you.

Nainoa Hoe Scholarship of Honor

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Every August 28th the Nainoa Hoe Scholarship of Honor is awarded at the Lt. Nainoa Hoe Mission Training Complex at Schofield Barracks in Honolulu Hawaii. 

August 28th commemorates Nainoa's birthday- this year would have been his 40th birthday and marked the 11th annual Scholarship of Honor awarded in his name through Brian's Foundation. 

This years' recipient, Cadet Vanna Nguyen is a sophomore at the University of Hawaii, at Manoa and is pursuing a bachelor's degree in Animal Science with the goal of serving as a Veterinarian in the U.S. Army.


"Aloha to a very special family whose legacy has touched countless lives and made a difference in immeasurable ways."  Allen Hoe, Nainoa's Dad


Bellin College Scholarship

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Bellin Hospital is where Brian and Kim LaViolette came into this world, so it holds a special place in our hearts.  We started this scholarship to honor and thank the nurses who spend their lives helping others. 

Corrina Dart from Algoma Wisconsin, received this years' Bellin College Scholarship through Brian's Foundation.  

She is a sophomore in the nursing program and is looking forward to clinicals where she will decide what she will be specializing in. She is pictured here with Renee and Doug LaViolette.

"I am so very grateful for the support I have been given and feel honored to have been chosen for it. I hope that my future in nursing leads me to more people who are as generous and caring as you all have been, and that I can give back in the best way I know how; caring for others. I cannot thank you enough!"  Corrina Dart, Sophomore Traditional BSN Nursing Student, Bellin College


NWTC... Sometimes Scholarships run in the family

For the past 17 years, Brian's Foundation has been awarding and recognizing graduating seniors from Oconto and Suring High Schools moving on to higher education at Northeastern Wisconsin Technical College.

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Last month John Christenson from Suring High School and James Merline from Oconto High School were awarded this years scholarships. John is studying Radiography.  James is studying Automation Engineering and Electro-Mechnaical Technology.

Sometimes scholarships run in the family too! John's, brother Cody received the same scholarship a few years ago and is now a police officer. John and Cody are pictured with their dad, Ron and Doug and Renee LaViolette.



Poland International Scholarship of Honor

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Over 70 scholarships through Brian's Foundation have been awarded to date in Poland. In 2003, the Foundation teamed up with the Nidzica Local Fund in Poland to coordinate the selection process for these scholarships.  

Nidzica is a small, rural area and our scholarship helps students attend universities in larger towns to pursue their dream of college education.

Next month, Dominika Wozniak will receive this years' scholarship sponsored by Darlene Nueske.  Dominika is in her second year at Warsaw Polytechnic, studying Biotechnology.



St. Norbert College Scholarships


St. Norbert College was one of the first scholarships the Foundation awarded. Since 1992, young men and women from DePere High School attending St. Norbert College have had a chance to pursue their goals and dreams with the help of Brian's Foundation. These awards are based on academic and extracurricular excellence and are announced later this month.

We look forward to springtime when most of the scholarships are awarded, but for Brian's Foundation, "Scholarship Season" is all year long.

AN OPEN LETTER TO A LOCAL TEEN                                               WHO DROWNED 25 YEARS AGO


Here’s an open letter to Brian LaViolette, a guy who has been dead for 25 years.

I’m not sure how else to reach him, so I’m giving this a try. If you’re not him, go turn to the sports section or something, and give me and Brian a moment, would you?

Dear Brian,

You don’t know me, I don’t believe. We’ve never met face-to-face, and, with all due respect, I hope we don’t for a good many years. I don’t think the Press-Gazette delivers to where you are now, but we’re online now, too, so who knows? Maybe you’ll see this.

Anyway I feel like somebody ought to tell you some of what has been going on in your name over the last 25 years since you’ve been gone.

Yep, can you believe it? It’s 25 years ago this week that you drowned off Chambers Island. In fact, today would be the 25th anniversary of the very day they recovered your body. You were 15, which means you’d be 40 today. Crazy, eh?

As you can imagine, your death crushed your ma and dad and kid sister. In fact, I was talking to your dad, Doug, just this week about you, and he’s a pretty strong guy, but even 25 years later, he still had to keep apologizing for stopping mid-sentence and blinking way too much. 

“We think about our son every single day,” Doug told me.

But wounds heal in different ways for different people. For Doug and your mom, Renee, it motivated them to start the Brian LaViolette Scholarship Foundation shortly after you died. It’s meant to keep your memory alive, but you’d be amazed at what a big deal it’s become.

I got to thinking about that this week. Your foundation had a full-page ad last Tuesday in the Green Bay Press-Gazette listing people who got scholarships with your name on it. There were 781 of them.

But the way I figure it, your influence on people's lives has been exponentially greater than that.

Help me do the math here. That’s 781 people who got scholarships ranging from $500 to $10,000, That's 781 people whose lives were changed by catching a financial break and getting an education that’s allowed them to go into the workforce prepared to do better for themselves, their families and the world. And that’s roughly 781 parents or sets of parents who caught a break in sending their kid to college. So how many are we up to?

Your foundation has become sort of an umbrella foundation for 55 other scholarships, set up by other grieving parents in the names of their dead kids, all over the world. Now how many are we up to?

Your dad said to me, “This has gotten to be so much bigger than Brian.” I almost thought saying that would make him a little sad, but it was the opposite. He was proud. Of you.

Then there are all the hundreds of donors, pouring money into your scholarship fund and these 55 others. You have to count that as an impact, too, because giving money to a cause has a way of changing the donors' lives.

About 300 of those folks showed up at a big shindig held for you this week.

It was held in the Legends Club at Lambeau Field, up on the fourth level. Oh, wait. You were a big Green Bay Packers fan, I understand, but you don’t know anything about the big stadium renovation, do you? Well, anyway they have this big conference space up there, and they held a nice dinner, and an auction where people could bid big money for signed footballs and stuff, to raise money for scholarships.

A bunch of past-year scholarship winners were introduced. The guy whose boat was used to help find your body in the bay was there. The lady who was the on-duty nurse at Bellin Hospital the day you were born was even there. It felt like a scene out of “It’s a Wonderful Life.”

Your kid sister Kim organized the event. She’s executive director of your foundation now, keeping track of tens of thousands of dollars’ worth of other people’s money, applications, putting on events and everything, can you believe it? She was only 12 when you died, but she's quite the young lady now. She's getting married in three weeks, you know.

The guest speaker for the party was a veteran named Sal Giunta. He’s a Medal of Honor recipient from Iowa, the first living recipient since the Vietnam War. He did some incredibly heroic stuff a few years ago in a war that you wouldn't have heard about yet. Now he’s got a scholarship going, under that Brian LaViolette umbrella I was telling you about, but his is named after two buddies that died in battle.

All Giunta could talk about was how he was in awe of the idea that your scholarships, his scholarship, all the scholarships being given away under the Brian LaViolette Foundation umbrella, go to not just smart students but students who have shown a spirit of volunteerism, a sense of community, a desire to help others.

I thought maybe he'd strike a John Wayne pose and say something like, "There I was, cannons to the right of me, cannons to the left of me..." His speech wasn't like that in the least.

“I am in awe of the men and women in this room,” said the guy who got a Medal of Honor from the president of the United States and then GAVE IT AWAY to the 173rd Airborne Brigade Combat team that he had been a part of. Did I mention he also has a Bronze Star, Purple Heart, Army Commendation Medal with oak leaf cluster?

That means not only is your foundation helping people go to college, but they’re coming out prepared to make a difference in the world. That’s really the exponential thing I was talking about, Brian. All these people not only going to school on your dime, but they’re also coming out to make changes that impact other people’s lives for the better. How many are we up to now?

Pretty cool, isn’t it? But then, there’s another way to look at all this.

A buddy of yours from your old Allouez neighborhood spoke at the party, too. A guy named Scott Andler. 

He agreed that your foundation had become something big and wonderful, but then he said something I think a whole lot of people in the room were thinking. He said, “To be honest, I wish my friend was here today and this foundation never happened.”

It was really something. You should've been there. Well, anyway, I hope this letter finds its way to you somehow. And keep up the good work.


Paul Srubas,                                                                                                                                  USA TODAY NETWORK-WisconsinPublished 11:10 a.m. CT Aug. 10, 2017